What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 01:05
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
What are some ten strong legal evidences that are needed for a divorce?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
Why does my vagina and around my butthole itch? I don't have weird discharge and I'm still a virgin.
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
From 1 to 10, how dark is the Naruto fandom? Why?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
Why does my private parts itch so much during certain periods?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Why does Africa have all mineral resources but she is suffering economically?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
Is crossdressing being a transvestite?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
What is your favorite position? Why?
Why do you think Democrat favorability ratings are so low?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Why do people still think Michael Jackson was guilty?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
Has a psychic ever made a crazy prediction that turned out to be true?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
Kuorans can you write a sad story about kpop?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
Would you read them together?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
Any that are a turn off?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
How old are you? Male or Female?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
Please share Did you stop?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
*** Random Questions ***
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
If you win, what will you make them do?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
The Ice Breaker Questions
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
29- How superstitious are you?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Nothing too Serious
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
Any that are a turn off?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
If yes, what?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
*** Questions About Me ***
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
39~ What are your love languages?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
52~ What are your hobbies?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
Family Relation Age Play
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?